Discussion Guide
The topic of judging! Not many things get us fired up like being judged. We all judge people, many times while not even knowing the circumstances, and yet we hate being judged by others. What does scripture say about this topic? This week we start a new series called Judged. In this first week, we are specifically considering self-righteous judgement.
What you will need: A Bible or your Bible app, a notebook, pen, and highlighter. The verses highlighted below are linked so that you can easily access them during your study time.
Jump Start
1. What's a ridiculous reason you’ve judged someone-but would never admit out loud...until now? If you had to judge people based on just one ridiculous trait (like how they hold a fork, or their favorite pizza topping), what would it be?
2. Read Matthew 7:1-2,12. Do you consider yourself a judgy person? Recount a time you judged a situation incorrectly or someone judged you incorrectly? When it comes to being judged, how would you like to be judged?
3. Read Matthew 7:3-5, Romans 2:1-4. What is Jesus asking us to do in Matthew 7? Why is it important to examine our own lives before confronting others? In Romans 2:4 how does God treat us?
4. Read Psalm 139:23-24, John 3:17. Pause and pray the words from the passage Psalm 139:23-24 together in your group. Why is Praying Psalm 139 difficult or freeing for you? How can we practice being open to God’s correction in our daily lives? How can we reflect God’s love and grace in our interactions with others?
Action Step: This week ask God to search your heart and point out anything that is offensive to Him-in your work, family, friendships, parenting, marriage, leadership or any other area in your life. Biblical judgement starts with putting the gavel down and picking up a mirror. Ask God to help you love others like He loved you.